He made money from a stall at the age of 9
Reluctantly sigh: class duplication is difficult to change
Every family has its cupboard! Recently, a male netizen shared his life journey on Dcard. He was a well-off family from a young age, but because his parents were addicted to gambling, they lost to bankruptcy and ran away. In order to help the family pay off the debts, he followed his parents to the night market from the third grade of elementary school. To make money, "busy until I get home and take a shower often at 12:30", and sleep less than 6 hours a day, not only does not study well, but also affects his height. After he grows up, his relationship path is not smooth. He always pointed the finger at him. "Parental class copying" and lamented that it is really difficult to change this phenomenon.
The original PO posted a post on Dcard with the topic "Class replication is really hard to change", saying that because parents were addicted to gambling, they lost to bankruptcy and ran away. In order to pay off the debts, parents took him in the third grade of elementary school. He set up a night market to make money. He recalled his childhood and said, “Every day I go home from school at 4 o’clock, and after dinner, I set off for the night market at about 5 o’clock. When I get home, I usually take a shower at 12:30. I started my junior year and never watched TV. , I haven’t read the comics, I don’t know how to play, I’m making money.”
Original PO sighed that his childhood was almost dedicated to work, and he didn’t even have enough time to study. "Don’t say that studying badly is like playing. I want to play but I haven’t had to play. This is also the reason why I am not tall. My dad 180, my mother 173, I At only 167, I don’t have enough food every day, sleep late, and don’t exercise. I can grow taller to have ghosts. I don’t have friends at school because I really don’t talk about topics.” There seems to be a lot of complaints in his words. He mentioned the year of the third year of high school. When he came home and saw the underworld to collect debts, he said angrily, "Please help me bury my parents alive. They really love to gamble. My junior started working until after 11pm. , They don’t know yet to quit gambling.”
The original PO came out to start a business as an adult and also made a lot of money, but he always thinks that "class duplication" is tied to his life, "I don't have any friends of the same age, because I have been used as a money-making machine since my junior year." I’ve been with several girlfriends and broke up, and I was scared by my family.” He no longer has a longing for love, saying that now he would rather take his time off to make up for his childhood shortcomings, such as playing video games, reading comics and other leisure activities. .
Although the original PO is full of grievances, he still pays his parents 50,000 yuan in filial piety every month. However, his parents' recent remarks completely angered him, "You are so short that you are already sorry to your parents and you don't work. When he was still at home, how could he get married and have children?" He was so angry that he poured a drink on his father's face. In the past, all the things he had suffered in childhood made him decide to go to the psychiatric clinic. The doctor suggested, "Don't have children. Although it is not my fault, the concept is different from ordinary people. It is not a good thing for the growth of children."
In the end, the original PO couldn’t help sighing that “class duplication is due to the relationship between parents, only using children as tools, and a bunch of bad habits will naturally ruin the next generation.” As soon as the post was exposed, many netizens were deeply concerned about his childhood experience. Expressed sympathy, "You are very strong and excellent, and you no longer continue to copy the class." "I think you don't have to be filial to your relatives now. I'm afraid that the defendant will give a few thousand people and won't starve to death." Enough for your daily life’s filial piety, and save the rest for yourself.” “It’s pretty difficult. You’ve successfully gotten out of poverty by starting a business, but the lost time won’t come back. Don’t get stuck in the past.”.
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父母賭博欠債拖累 他從9歲擺攤賺錢 無奈嘆：階級複製難改變
家家有本難念的經！近日一名男網友在Dcard分享自己的人生歷程，從小家境算是小康，但由於爸媽沉迷賭博，輸到破產跑路，為了幫家裡還債，他從國小三年級就跟著爸媽到夜市擺攤賺錢，「忙到回到家洗完澡常常12點半」，且每天睡眠時間不足6小時，不僅書念不好，連身高也受到影響，長大後感情路更是不順暢，他通通把矛頭指向「父母階級複製」，並大嘆要改變這種現象真的很難。
原PO在Dcard以「階級複製真的很難改變」為題發文表示，因為爸媽沉迷賭博，輸到破產跑路，為了還清債務，爸媽就拉著當時國小三年級的他一起到夜市擺攤賺錢，他憶起童年表示，「每天4點放學回家，吃完飯，約5點多就往夜市出發，回到家洗完澡常常12點半了。我小三開始，沒看過電視，沒看過漫畫，我也不會打球，都在賺錢。」
原PO大嘆童年幾乎都獻給工作，連讀書的時間都不夠，「別說書唸不好是愛玩，我想玩還沒得玩，長不高也是這個原因，我爸180，媽媽173，我才167，每天吃不飽、晚睡、沒運動，能長高才有鬼，而且在學校沒朋友，因為真的沒話題聊天」，言語中似乎透露著不少抱怨。他再提到高三那一年，回到家看見黑道來討債，他便氣憤地向對方說，「拜托你們幫我活埋我爸媽，他們真的太愛賭，我小三開始工作到晚上11點後，他們還不知道要戒賭。」
原PO成年後出來創業，也賺到不少錢，但他總認為「階級複製」牽絆著他的人生，「我沒什麼同年齡的朋友，因為我從小三開始就是被當賺錢的機器」「交往過幾個女友都分手了，被我家嚇到」，對愛情不再有憧憬的他，表示現在寧願拿自己休息的時間來彌補童年的缺憾，像是打打電動、看看漫畫等休閒活動。
原PO雖然滿腹怨氣，但每個月仍會給爸媽5萬的孝親費，不過，爸媽最近的一番言論徹底把他惹怒，「你長的矮就已經對不起爸媽了，不工作的時候還宅在家怎麽結婚生子」，他氣到拿飲料往爸爸臉上潑。而過去童年承受的種種，讓他決定去掛精神科門診，醫生建議，「不要生小孩，雖然不是我的錯，但觀念上異於常人，對小孩的成長不是好事。」
最後原PO忍不住大嘆「階級複製是因為父母的關係，只把小孩當工具，又一堆陋習，自然會毀了下一代」，貼文一曝光，不少網友對於他童年的遭遇深表同情，「你很堅強也很優秀，沒有再繼續階級複製了」「我覺得你現在就可以不用孝親了，怕被告給個幾千不會餓死就好」「真的辛苦了，建議給父母夠日常生活的孝親費即可，剩下的你自己存起來」「蠻難的，創業成功脫貧了，但是失去的時間也回不來了，不要陷在過去。」。
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